You don’t need another “safe space.”
You need to become safe from the inside out.
Narcissistic abuse reconditioning for empaths who are done recovering and ready to stop repeating.
Healing isn’t why you’re here. You’ve done the healing. You’re here because it keeps happening. This is where the pattern actually stops. Not through more therapy. Through reconditioning the reflexes that keep you exploitable.
MEET CHRISTINA ZAYASMeet the Coach Who Won’t Coddle You.
I'm a Narcissistic Abuse Reconditioning Coach. I don't teach you about narcissists - you already know more than enough. I work at the nervous system level, reconditioning the reflexes that made you a target so the pattern stops repeating. My background is in shadow integration, depth psychology, and somatic work. I use all of it. But the goal is always the same: make you unexploitable.
Offerings
Every offer reconditions a different layer of the pattern.
The Machiavellian Empath
Psychological Power Mentorship
Dissolving Trauma Bonds
MY APPROACH
Most narcissistic abuse recovery focuses on understanding what happened to you. My work focuses on why your nervous system allowed it to keep happening - and reconditioning that at the root. We don't just talk about patterns. We identify the specific reflexes that made you exploitable, trace them back to where they were installed, and rewire them through shadow integration, inner child work, and strategic reconditioning. The goal isn't healing. The goal is to make sure the pattern has nothing left to attach to.
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Christina has been a mentor in guiding me back to understanding my worth. I knew this was a woman who could assist me in a few things that are holding me back in my life.
The support, tips, challenges, 1:1 calls, and guidance were so beneficial. Craving so much growth and wanting to overcome internal challenges can sometimes be difficult on your own. She was that component I needed to push me along and guide me. Forever learning and forever growing. She was an amazing woman to help me along this journey in life.
JANA MARIE
“I reached out to Christina because I was attracted to her dedication and commitment to healing herself while un-avoiding the dark sides of her past. I was intrigued. I've worked with therapists in the past, and while they helped me look back to discover what had such a hold on me, they instead tried techniques on me to overcome and almost forget who that part of me was.
My work with Christina was the complete polar opposite. We did look back, but it wasn't to forget; it was to embrace those "shadows," those parts of me, patterns that just seemed to repeat themselves over and over again. I learned how to accept all parts of me, good and bad, and use those parts to create an incredibly gorgeous life of self-acceptance and love.”
SHAUNA TUSO
“When I started working with Christina, I felt like I hit a ceiling I couldn’t break through. I worked hard and achieved a lot, but relationships fell apart, my business was stagnant, and satisfaction felt unattainable. Through our work, we discovered a belief I’d never admitted, that I wasn’t good enough. I laughed it off at first, but realized this belief was running everything.
The turning point was when I stopped white-knuckling my life and started listening to it. That story wasn’t the truth of who I was, but it was the doorway to where I abandoned myself. Once I reclaimed that part, everything shifted. Within three months, my entire world transformed more than it had in years. I felt free, whole, and finally creating from my authentic power.”
ALEX PEÑA